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Tatum & Connor
10 April 2027
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FOREVER STARTS HERE
If there's one thing we've learnt, it's that the best things in life rarely happen the way you expect them to. Long before either of us realised it, our paths had already crossed. We had both walked the same school corridors, but it wasn't until years later, while working at that very same school, that our story truly began. It started simply — a friendship built on easy conversation, shared laughter, and finding reasons to spend a little more time together than either of us cared to admit. What began as quick chats slowly became part of our everyday lives. Chai lattes turned into tradition, conversations through a car window somehow lasted for hours, and "just friends" became harder and harder to believe.

The funny thing is,
maybe everyone else knew before we did.

Connor had quietly told his mom that he was going to marry Tatum one day, long before there was any reason to believe it could happen. Around the same time, Tatum had prayed for God to take control of her future, trusting that His plans would always be greater than her own. Looking back now, it's impossible not to smile at how perfectly everything unfolded.

Our relationship never felt rushed. It grew naturally, with a strong foundation of friendship, trust, and choosing each other every single day. Somewhere along the way, we realised we weren't just building a relationship — we were building a home in one another.

On 11 April 2026, Connor asked Tatum to marry him at Brahman Hills, and without hesitation, she said yes. Now, almost exactly one year later, on 10 April 2027, we have the privilege of promising each other forever. More than anything, this day is a celebration of God's faithfulness, of answered prayers, unexpected timing, and a love that found us when we least expected it.

To our family and friends, thank you for walking this journey with us, encouraging us, praying for us, and loving us so well. Having you here to witness the beginning of our marriage means more than words can say. We're so grateful you're part of our story.


Welcome to the beginning of our forever. ♡
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THE VENUE
Sweethome Weddings
The ceremony will begin promptly at 2:00 PM
at The Chapel on Sweethome Farm
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WEDDING DETAILS
RSVP DATE
DRESS CODE
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Golden Hour Elegance

As we celebrate our love beneath the glow of a beautiful autumn sky, we invite you to embrace timeless sophistication with our black-tie dress code.

Ladies are encouraged to wear floor-length gowns or elegant formal dresses in soft, romantic tones.

Gentlemen are encouraged to wear a tuxedo or suit with or without a tie or bow tie.

Think classic silhouettes, refined details, and effortless elegance- attire that captures the warmth, romance, and magic of golden hour.

To complement the palette of our day, we kindly ask that all guests avoid wearing white, cream, or olive green.


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ACCOMPANYING GUESTS
CHILDREN - While we adore your little ones, we kindly ask that only the children specifically named on the invitation join us on our special day. We hope this gives everyone the chance to relax, celebrate, and enjoy the evening with us. Thank you so much for understanding.

Plus Ones- Due to venue capacity, we are only able to accommodate the guests named on your invitation. If your invitation includes a plus one, they will be listed by name.
BAR & DRINKS
We’ll be treating you to a selection of drinks to get the celebrations started! Once those have been enjoyed, a cash bar will be available for any additional beverages throughout the evening.
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the Stay

Please note that the accommodation at the venue has been reserved exclusively for the wedding party and some family. Fortunately, there are plenty of wonderful accommodation options nearby for our guests. Please see the list below for some recommendations.

The Pastures

D248, Mid Illovo, 3750
Tel: 079 506 4774

Insingizi Bush Lodge & Spa KZN

P118 District Road, Mid Illovo, Durban, 3750
Tel: 083 414 1932

Gillys Accommodation

Umlaas Road, Camperdown, 3720
Tel: 082 808 9775

Angels Way Farm

R624, Eston, 3740
Tel: 082 787 7484

Tala Private Game Reserve

Tel: +27 31 781 8000
WhatsApp: +27 65 862 1241
Email: info@tala.co.za

Eston Farm B&B

Tel: +27 82 467 3156

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a note on gifts

Your presence (and questionable dance moves) at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for. If you would like to celebrate with a gift, we would be so grateful for a contribution towards our honeymoon. Your generosity will help us create unforgettable memories as we begin this exciting new chapter together. BANKING DETAILS: Connor Van Wyk FNB Account Number:62742033525 Type of Account: Transaction account Branch code: 221126 Reference: Your name

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on the agenda
14:00
The Ceremony Begins

Join us as we say “I do.”



15:00
Canapés

Live Music and Games on the Lawn


17:10
Reception Doors Open

Please make your way inside and find your seat.



17:30
Grand Entrance

Welcome the newlyweds and bridal party as the evening celebrations begin!


00:00
Until We Meet Again

Our fairytale comes to an end. Thank you for celebrating with us and making our day so unforgettable.
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Standing beside Us

Matron of Honour

Tayla Setzkorn (Brides sister) 

Bridesmaids

Hannah Van Wyk (Grooms sister)

Caitlin Sumpton

Megan Miller

Paige Blignaut

Lisa Moore

Flower Girls

Chelsea Matheson

Taylor Bateman

Best Man

Marick Baronet

Groomsmen

Josh Coetzee

Trent Coetzee

Ronan Naude

Rory Setzkorn

Liam Gaillard

MC

Rory Setzkorn

FATHERS OF THE BRIDE & GROOM

Michael Ridgway and Gerald Van Wyk

MOTHERS OF THE BRIDE & GROOM

Chantal Ridgway and Debbie Van Wyk

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Share the Love

We can’t wait to experience our day through your lens, follow the link and share all the moments you’ve captured.

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JOIN US IN CELEBRATION!

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