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Tatum & Connor
10 April 2027
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FOREVER STARTS HERE
If there's one thing we've learnt, it's that the best things in life rarely happen the way you expect them to. Long before either of us realised it, our paths had already crossed. We had both walked the same school corridors, but it wasn't until years later, while working at that very same school, that our story truly began. It started simply — a friendship built on easy conversation, shared laughter, and finding reasons to spend a little more time together than either of us cared to admit. What began as quick chats slowly became part of our everyday lives. Chai lattes turned into tradition, conversations through a car window somehow lasted for hours, and "just friends" became harder and harder to believe.
The funny thing is,
maybe everyone else knew before we did.
Connor had quietly told his mom that he was going to marry Tatum one day, long before there was any reason to believe it could happen. Around the same time, Tatum had prayed for God to take control of her future, trusting that His plans would always be greater than her own. Looking back now, it's impossible not to smile at how perfectly everything unfolded.
Our relationship never felt rushed. It grew naturally, with a strong foundation of friendship, trust, and choosing each other every single day. Somewhere along the way, we realised we weren't just building a relationship — we were building a home in one another.
On 11 April 2026, Connor asked Tatum to marry him at Brahman Hills, and without hesitation, she said yes. Now, almost exactly one year later, on 10 April 2027, we have the privilege of promising each other forever. More than anything, this day is a celebration of God's faithfulness, of answered prayers, unexpected timing, and a love that found us when we least expected it.
To our family and friends, thank you for walking this journey with us, encouraging us, praying for us, and loving us so well. Having you here to witness the beginning of our marriage means more than words can say. We're so grateful you're part of our story.
Welcome to the beginning of our forever. ♡


WEDDING DETAILS

RSVP DATE
DRESS CODE

Golden Hour Elegance
As we celebrate our love beneath the glow of a beautiful autumn sky, we invite you to embrace timeless sophistication with our black-tie dress code.
Ladies are encouraged to wear floor-length gowns or elegant formal dresses in soft, romantic tones.
Gentlemen are encouraged to wear a tuxedo or suit with or without a tie or bow tie.
Think classic silhouettes, refined details, and effortless elegance- attire that captures the warmth, romance, and magic of golden hour.
To complement the palette of our day, we kindly ask that all guests avoid wearing white, cream, or olive green.
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ACCOMPANYING GUESTS
CHILDREN - While we adore your little ones, we kindly ask that only the children specifically named on the invitation join us on our special day. We hope this gives everyone the chance to relax, celebrate, and enjoy the evening with us. Thank you so much for understanding.
Plus Ones- Due to venue capacity, we are only able to accommodate the guests named on your invitation. If your invitation includes a plus one, they will be listed by name.
BAR & DRINKS
We’ll be treating you to a selection of drinks to get the celebrations started! Once those have been enjoyed, a cash bar will be available for any additional beverages throughout the evening.

Parking and Shuttles
There is plenty of parking available at the venue for all guests.
If you plan on enjoying a few drinks, we kindly encourage you to arrange transport in advance. There are several shuttle services that operate in the area and can be booked directly. It is advised to get a group together as it lowers the cost.
Service Excellence- 082 506 6409
Wiseman Transport- 076 691 7990
East Coast Shuttle Services- 0838055705
Please don’t drink and drive. Your safety is important to us, and we’d love for everyone to get home safely after celebrating with us.

the Stay
Please note that the accommodation at the venue has been reserved exclusively for the wedding party and some family. Fortunately, there are plenty of wonderful accommodation options nearby for our guests. Please see the list below for some recommendations.
The Pastures
D248, Mid Illovo, 3750
Tel: 079 506 4774
Insingizi Bush Lodge & Spa KZN
P118 District Road, Mid Illovo, Durban, 3750
Tel: 083 414 1932
Gillys Accommodation
Umlaas Road, Camperdown, 3720
Tel: 082 808 9775
Angels Way Farm
R624, Eston, 3740
Tel: 082 787 7484
Tala Private Game Reserve
Tel: +27 31 781 8000
WhatsApp: +27 65 862 1241
Email: info@tala.co.za
Eston Farm B&B
Tel: +27 82 467 3156

a note on gifts
Your presence (and questionable dance moves) at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for. If you would like to celebrate with a gift, we would be so grateful for a contribution towards our honeymoon. Your generosity will help us create unforgettable memories as we begin this exciting new chapter together. BANKING DETAILS: Connor Van Wyk FNB Account Number:62742033525 Type of Account: Transaction account Branch code: 221126 Reference: Your name

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on the agenda
14:00
The Ceremony Begins
Join us as we say “I do.”
15:00
Canapés
Live Music and Games on the Lawn
17:10
Reception Doors Open
Please make your way inside and find your seat.
17:30
Grand Entrance
Welcome the newlyweds and bridal party as the evening celebrations begin!
00:00
Until We Meet Again
Our fairytale comes to an end. Thank you for celebrating with us and making our day so unforgettable.

Standing beside Us
Matron of Honour
Tayla Setzkorn (Brides sister)
Bridesmaids
Hannah Van Wyk (Grooms sister)
Caitlin Sumpton
Megan Miller
Paige Blignaut
Lisa Moore
Flower Girls
Chelsea Matheson
Taylor Bateman
Best Man
Marick Baronet
Groomsmen
Josh Coetzee
Trent Coetzee
Ronan Naude
Rory Setzkorn
Liam Gaillard
MC
Rory Setzkorn
FATHERS OF THE BRIDE & GROOM
Michael Ridgway and Gerald Van Wyk
MOTHERS OF THE BRIDE & GROOM
Chantal Ridgway and Debbie Van Wyk

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